Me time dilema

Real Struggles with Me Time   Ladies, you read my preachings quite often on self care. Read my article on practicing self care here. You might think I am an expert on the subject. Yes, I am an expert but I am not a good follower of my own advice. I have a me time dilemma. Right now, I am trying to allow myself some down time. My husband is away fishing for a week. I keep finding myself feeling like there is something I should be doing…..for my house, for my kids, for my husband who isnt even home. In my heart I feelRead More →

Too busy, needs help

Wife, Mother, Caregiver As many of you know…not only am I a wife and mother (and all that comes with those responsibilities), I became my husband’s caregiver after he came back from Iraq disabled. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. I’m just glad he is here by my side every day. Because of this, I feel guilty to say I need help. I feel like I should able to do it all with ease. This Mistake can Cost You Caregivers, homemakers, and often many human beings have trouble doing one thing…asking for help. I am one of those people. From a caregiver perspective, itRead More →

About a year ago, if you came up to me and told me that I needed to find time to take care of myself, I would have laughed in your face. My answer would be, “There isn’t time for that.” Who in the heck has time for Self Care? I would argue that I did not have time. On that note, a year ago, I was a frazzled mess. It was then, I was adjusting to my newborn boy being here,  and trying to navigate EVERYTHING. I was caring for a teething son, my daughter, my severly, permanently disabled husband (…thanks to a tour inRead More →